Hello my friends, Hope every one is doing well...
I have been fine and working hard like always trying the best that I can to continue spreading the word against Violence of all kinds. I want to talk about the issues of "silence" and how it can affect the children, also my rights to speak my mind and a bit more....
~There are so many reasons why thousands of people across the Nation chose to suffer in silence. I am here to tell you~ You don't need to suffer in SILENCE anymore SPEAK UP!!
~As an abused woman I learned that living in fear was not my only problem~my silence was an issue too, hiding my pain for so long without being able to tell anybody at all, knowing that I was being threaten while cornered against the wall stopped me from seeing my little girl watching in silence from the side lines.
~My daughter had to learn how to grow up with this pain and all of this memories~ she still feels the pain as she remembers the fear of watching her father hurting me~ no matter how much we try to cover up what our life has been, we can always look back at yesterday and still see what it was like. Its not so easy to forget, But its easy to move on and SPEAK UP!!
~I have been told not to write anymore~ I've even been told that my cuts and bruises are just part of my past, that I have no rights to talk about my life or even share my business with the world~ and if I continue to write I will have tremendous problems. Guess what? I love what I do, I have been writing for a long time now~ and I am not giving up.
~My topics are about true life experiences and I have a reason to speak my mind, I am tired of reading about the abuse against human kind~ even though I understand that I alone cannot stop what goes on in the world, I shouldn't stay hidden, my voice should be heard, the word should be spread~I am free to speak my mind because the constitution of the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA give's me the FREEDOM of SPEECH, and if I am wrong for fighting for what I believe in, then I am wrong~ but I will not stay quit.
Abuse is a CRIME, not only are women/children and men being abuse across the Nation, animals are being abused as well, after all they are part of the family~ i'ts becoming an epidemic and it repeats as often as every second around the clock.
*Someone had to say something about it and my children & counselors encouraged me to tell my story and never to give up.
~A mother/father will always try to do the best they can to make life better for their children no matter what it takes, even through the cuts and bruises, those words that hurts us so deeply are still lingering in our head, the walls we put up to alienate the outside world make it so difficult to see how the rest of the people live, they can't see us, because we cry in silence~ while we are thinking our children are growing normally, they have also put up a wall, removing themselves away from the outside world~they didn't ask for this~ It's not their fault or ours.
~The outcome of violence in the home has far-reaching consequences for young people, families and even neighbors and in some other cases it even leads to suicide or murder. Why wait until it's too late? Why can I talk about the facts of real life, about what my children and I have experienced~We want to help bring the violence to an end, we want to see the VIOLENCE STOP!
~My little girl watched in SILENCE and was scared to leave me home alone. She developed a fear of separation from me, which the doctors called it SEVERE SEPARATION ANXIETY, yet they couldn't understand why, they also couldn't understand why she would act up in school all the time. These are facts of how abuse can affect the lives of our children~ A child who is afraid can not concentrate in school, and it doesn't mean the child its not bright.
~Violence of all kinds can undermine the work of all sectors, not just educational and mental~ I believe everyone should include helping prevent violence in their everyday efforts around their community. Children should be able to enjoy life and every given opportunity~they should be able to thrive and excel to become prospective members of society and not have to fear and live in SILENCE watching from the sidelines.
~Children are watching and listening to what happens behind those closed doors, most of the times the doors are wide open~these children who experience the abuse are likely to experience psychological problems later in their life. Domestic violence and Child abuse affects the entire family.
~ SPEAK UP!!BREAK THE SILENCE!!!CALL THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/CHILD ABUSE HOT LINES, THERE ARE PEOPLE WAITING TO TAKE YOUR CALL AND HELP YOU!!YOUR VOICE WILL BE HEARD!! DON'T BE AFRAID!!! I WILL NOT STOP WRITING AND I WILL NOT GIVE UP!!!NEITHER SHOULD YOU!!!
AT YOUR SERVICE,
Jeannette Moreno
